Friday, January 11, 2013

Ancestral Inspiration: Mrs. Mary McLeod Bethune

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You never know where your inspiration can come from. I often find inspiration and motivation in unexpected places. My grandfather used to talk about Mrs. Mary McLeod Bethune a lot because she was born in South Carolina and lived in Florida. My grandfather was born in South Carolina and grew up in Florida so he saw a connection there. From my history lessons as a child, I knew that Mrs. Mary McLeod Bethune, a strong woman of faith, was a child of former slaves who surpassed expectations and opposition to found a college for African American’s now Bethune-Cookman College, started the National Council for Negro Women, was a advisor to President Theodore and Mrs. Eleanor Roosevelt in addition to many other positions and accomplishments. As I pursue my career in Higher Education Administration I felt a strong pull to learn more about Mrs. Bethune’s life and how she accomplished all that she had accomplished amongst all of the challenges and opposition she faced as a woman and African American living in the late 1800s/ early 1900s. As I read “Mary McLeod Bethune” by Catherine Owens Peare there were some lessons that stuck with me that I wanted to share with you.

1. Learn and Experience then Pay it Forward
As I read about Mrs. Bethune’s childhood I learned of her determination to learn how to read. She was not content until she knew how to read and write. When she was afforded the opportunity to attend school she took full advantage of the opportunity to learn how to read and write she taught others in her family and community how to read and write as well. She used all that she learned and paid it forward. This is a lesson that we all should remind ourselves of from time to time. We do not learn and experience all of the things that we do just for our pleasure and satisfaction alone. We must then pay it forward and share that which we have learned and experience with others who may benefit from it as well. That is one of the reasons why I started this blog, to share my knowledge and experiences with studying abroad, learning languages, culture, etc. with others to inspire and encourage them to take similar opportunities as the opportunities present themselves. Thus as we continue learn and experience new things we must continuously pay it forward by sharing and teaching what we have learned.

2. Stay Steadfast in your Faith
Mrs. Bethune approached everything that she did with faith. Although she had an extreme uphill battle to start and maintain a school for African American girls with little to no money, in time where Jim Crow was the norm and educating Black children was far less than a priority, and her being of color herself, Mrs. Bethune had faith in God, in herself and in the vision He gave her to educate her people would indeed become a reality. She exercised her faith by doing what was right in front of her at the time and meeting the needs of her students. Regardless of the opposition that she faced from her own people scared that she would stir up trouble to the opposition of white Americans who did not want to a school  black children she used her faith to start and grow her school that still educates students both male and female of all colors, nationalities, and economic backgrounds today. Mrs. Bethune let nothing stand in the way of her vision of educating her people.  Instead her faith allowed her vision grow larger than what most many could have fathomed.

3. Your Passion will open doors that you often don’t realize will be there.
Mrs. Mary McLeod Bethune had a vision as a child to learn how to read. As she learned from and gained an appreciation for her teachers she realized that she too wanted to be an educator. Her passion was to help her people to better themselves and she knew that education was a strong vehicle to do so. I am sure that she had no idea of all of the doors that would open as she set out to learn how to read, pursued her goal to become a teacher, and started her own school that grew into a college. Not only did she accomplish the goals just mentioned, but as she pursued her passion of helping her people through education she became an advisor to President Theodore Roosevelt and Former First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt. She also traveled all over the United States and Internationally speaking about education, civil and women’s rights and equality. By following her passion, Mrs. Bethune not only gained the respect from her peers, the admiration and influence from the President and the First Lady of the United States but she also gained the respect from many who at one time were opposed of her just for the color of her skin.

4. Traveling opens the mind and reinvigorates the soul.
Mrs. Bethune traveled across the country with various organizations that she lead and/ or was a part of such as the National Council of Negro Women, the National Urban League, and National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP). She also traveled internationally to Haiti, Italy, Switzerland, France, Belgium, England and other European Countries. Her travels gave her a broader understanding of the world, allowed her to see new sights and meet some amazing people including the Pope during her visit to Rome. Mrs. Bethune experiences abroad widened her vision and outlook as well as invigorated her drive to continue her life’s work of education and humanitarianism.

Learning more about Mrs. Bethune’s life increased my motivation to continue to live out my motto to be a blessing to others for I have been blessed by the efforts of Mrs. Bethune and all those who have come before me. I have been blessed by all the teachers and professors who have poured their knowledge into me. I have been blessed to have traveled and seen many parts of the world thus I am blessed to share those experiences and encourage others to travel abroad as well. I have also been blessed by you, yes you who take the time to read this blog. You are helping me to accomplish my goal of spreading the message of inspiring and encouraging others to travel, learn languages, and to explore cultures near and far. Thus I thank Mrs. Mary McLeod Bethune for her wisdom, faith and inspiration and I thank you for reading this entry, my blog in general, and for being a part of my journey.

Thanks for reading!!!

Hasta el proximo vez,

Kory