Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Career Corner: A Chat with Malikah Morris

It gives me great pleasure to introduce you to Malikah Morris. Malikah is currently a junior majoring in English and Spanish at Hampton University. Gotta love my fellow hamptonians!!! Malikah is the current president of the Hampton University Chapter of Alpha Mu Gamma Modern Foreign Language Honor Society and promotes language learning on and off campus. As a former president of Hampton University's chapter of Alpha Mu Gamma, it was so interesting to share stories about the organization and learn about each others study abroad experiences. I was honored when she agreed to let me share her study abroad experiences with you!!! So with out further ado check out Malikah's interview on KoMiSa's World.

1. Where did you study abroad?
 I studied abroad in Granada,  Spain

2. When did you study abroad and how long did you stay?
I attended the University of Granada during the Summer 2013 term for a 6 week program.

3. What was your sole purpose for studying abroad? Did you accomplish that purpose?
My purpose for studying abroad was to advance my pursuit of my degree in Spanish. I left receiving 6 transferrable credits towards my Bachelors in Spanish, so yes I did accomplish my purpose. 

4. Were you initially excited and ready to go or were there any fears or reservations? If so what were they and how did you overcome them? If not what expectations ignited your excitement?
I was very eager to go. I've always been the one to break barriers and lead my mentees by example. I wasn't nervous at all. I was forewarned that it was uncommon for Black people to study abroad. My father had his own reservations about me going somewhere that I wouldn't be warmly accepted. When I arrived in Spain the people loved me. They treated me like a celebrity. In my program, I was one of two black girls. The other girl Camille, was raised in a very suburban privileged family while I come from one of the worst cities in the United States, Newark, NJ. The first two days, everyone in the program spent time together, getting to know one another. I quickly proved that I was just as eligible to be there as anyone else. My Oral Spanish aided to get us "lost Americans" back to our hotel and my comprehension of the language became a very useful tool throughout the entire program.

5. What was your experience like studying abroad? 
My study abroad experience was incredible. My host mom made great food everyday, three times a day. She also did laundry three times a week. I think it is important to have a host family who doesn't just do the minimum. My host mom noticed that I was very advanced and she and my roommate pushed me to speak more. I would answer questions but I never started a conversation. When I would speak she would always encourage me saying "well spoken/well said." She also made me break out of my shell and some nights she would tell me "go to karaoke tonight and sing, song beautifully Micah," and thus began me being a regular entertainer at the local karaoke bar.


 It was a unique experience learning things about the culture through experience and not via textbook. Even when we were learning via textbook the teachers spoke with more knowledge and more passion of the topics. 

Also, studying abroad is like a sophisticated party life. We went out almost every night and some of my friends even stayed out so late some nights that they left the club, and caught the bus to school. Sounds crazy, but it created priceless memories. Also, the fact that you couldn't uses your cell phone unless you found a place that had wifi force us to get to know each other and the people around us. The disconnect was very beneficial.

Being one of 5 black people in the entire school, and 12 in the province was a wonderful experience but it took getting used to. People would stop their eating and just look up at me. Other ethnic people like the Africans and the French people would come up to me speaking their language and I hadn't the slightest idea of what they were saying. Nevertheless they were happy to see their "sister there." I can't count how many times someone yelled Obama while I was walking down the street. Once you can accept the fact that you are unique to them, your experience will be better. I had chefs come out to meet me, people purchase me drinks, people take pictures of me with and without asking and so much more. It was eye flattering. 

6. How has studying abroad changed your life? You as a person? 
I see the world through another perspective now.The world is so much bigger than the U.S. Studying abroad has also helped me to have patience.  I am now being asked to do presentations and forums about my experience. Studying abroad has opened up so many windows of opportunity for me. I feel like I definitely have something on my resume that has the potential to separate me from my opponents.

7. Are you bilingual or multilingual? If so what languages do you speak? If so...(continue to the questions below)        
In Spain I was finally dubbed "bilingual" 

7a. How has studying/working abroad impacted your languages skills? 
My understanding grew significantly. I now know little jargons. I also now understand the Andalusian accent, and the Latin American accent of the Spanish language. 

7b. How has speaking another language or your willingness to learn the native tongue of the country impacted your abroad experience? 
When I finally let down my guard and spoke to people other than my teachers, waitresses, and my host mom when forced I noticed that the words and the language just came to me naturally. Often times we spend our lives holding on to our inhibitions, not realizing that if we just release them we can feel greater and be greater if we allow ourselves.

8. How has studying abroad affected your outlook on your collegiate experience now that you have returned to Hampton University?
Now that I've come back to Hampton I feel impelled to encourage my fellow classmates to do the same. When people notice my knowledge of certain topics, and see how studying abroad has made me take on the language with a new approach they commend me. I now also tutor students at my school because I am comfortable doing so and I teach 3 and 4 year olds at a local school here.  

9. What are your career aspirations and how has studying abroad affected those aspirations? 
I am very interested in law and public policy. I have always aspired to be a government official. After studying abroad, I am now looking to intern abroad this summer. If I do not receive and internship, I intend to intern in one of the respective fields above. After graduation, I would like to possibly build a career abroad and eventually return home to continue my quest in changing lives and making the world a better place.

10. Do you have any advice for others who want to study abroad?
Just do it! Don't let fear hold you back. First Lady Obama said it best "you can't make decisions based on fear and the possibility of what might happen."

11. Do you have a website, twitter name, Facebook  page, etc that you would like me to share so that the readers can find out more info and/ or connect with you?
Facebook: Malikah Morris

Hasta el Proximo Vez,

KoMiSa

Saturday, November 16, 2013

New Section- The Road to My Promised Land

I have thought about adding a section to my blog, Road to the Promised Land, aka my career in Study Abroad, for months. Looking back over my life my career started with my wanting to learn a new language as a toddler. This wanting opened me up to learning about various cultures and the languages that are spoken in different cultures/countries. Fast forward to college, I took as many opportunities as I could to study abroad and travel and continued that lifestyle there after. I only considered graduate programs that would allow me to study abroad for no less than a semester if not more. I knew I had experience and developed an expertise in international marketing and always had a love for education but did not know how I was going to combine that with my passion of language learning, culture and study/ travel abroad. 

God and I had some serious conversations while in grad school about where my career was going once I earned my graduate degrees. Although I had some interesting and enriching work experiences before grad school nothing felt like the optimal fit. Thus I needed a new direction. Time was ticking and was about to complete my graduate studies but God came through. I knew exactly the industry I wanted to pursue, the position I would work towards, why I was passionate about it, and how I could be of great service as well as make a huge impact in my chosen field. I was gaining clarity in my career path and for that I was thankful.

When I started discussing my career focus and goals with my professors they thought that it would be an excellent fit. When I told my friends, family and some former colleagues they were like oh yeah that is a no brainer. When I started meeting people in the industry they could tell my passion for my career choice, my thought process and seriousness they got a glimpse of the knowledge I had about my industry and what I had to offer. Yet with all that said I still have not landed a full time salaried position in my chosen field in yup you guessed it, Study Abroad and International Programs. 

If this was years ago it may have caused me to reconsider my career choice or as I like to refer to it, my career calling but I am way too passionate and invested in it and know that I would make a tremendous impact in it so I press on or "lean in" as Sheryl Sandburg would say. Heck there came a point where I was not sure I was going to keep up with this blog anymore. There were points when this blog was a reminder that I wasn't where I wanted to be (hey this is full disclosure here) but I never give up as my bro Willie would say and I am the diligent one as my best friend Tyshawna likes to call me so instead  I continue to  press forward. I reminded myself that I did start this blog to get a job, although it allows me to stay connected to it, I started this blog to encourage others to step outside of their comfort zone and perceived limitations and truly explore the world near and far. I reminded myself that if one person reads, comments, likes this blog etc. my writing is not in vain. If/when more read this blog I have yet another reason to smile and dance. It's been 2 years since I started seeking full-time employment in Study Abroad and although  I am still in this phase of my career journey I figure that maybe my blog posts in this new section, "The Road to My Promised Land", could be uplifting to you or someone you may know who is going through a similar journey. I look forward to sharing more of this part of my journey with you.

If you are or have gone through a similar journey and want to connect or if you would like to share some advice or encouragement feel free to leave a comment.

Hasta pronto?

KoMiSa

Friday, November 8, 2013

What Magazines Would You Have On Your Coffee Table?

Magazines often tell a bit about you. They tell about your interests and your likes. What you often gravitate toward.  Previously Working in the magazine industry, the question what magazines do you have on your coffee table (or in your tablet) was an ice breaker so I thought it would be fun to share what would be on my coffee table (if I actually bought them instead of reading them at the library).

Travel & Leisure - www.travelandleisure.com
Need I say more. Travel and Leisure definitely appeals to my insatiable appetite for travel and culture. It often introduces me to new places and cultures that I then want to experience for myself. Travel & Leisure is definitely a reason why my travel list continues to grow. I recently went to Bermuda for the first time and had a great time. I can't wait to go back. I can now cross that country off my list of firsts but I am sure that the next time I pick up the latest copy of Travel and Leisure another country or two will be added to my growing list of places to go and things to do while there. 

Vanidades - www.vanidades.com 
Reading magazines of different languages are a great way to keep up your language skills. Magazines are often fun to read. Vandides is  Spanish magazine. I can grab my Vanidades and practice my Spanish reading and comprehension skills while I am relaxing. Win-win situation. When I am in another country I love picking up that language's versions of the other magazines that would be on my coffee table. I used to read Shape and Self in Spanish when I studied in Mexico. Fun times!!!

Self or Shape - www.self.com       www.shape.com 
A girls got to stay healthy. Physical fitness has always been a part of my life since childhood when I studied dances. Now when I take dance classes occasionally, have grown to enjoy running and recently started taking yoga regularly. Both Self and Shape give great examples of cool workouts, healthy dishes to try and in some articles talk about great places in other country to workout or ideas of how to stay healthy and in shape while traveling. 

Real Simple - www.realsimple.com
Real Simple appeals to my organizational side. Real Simple gives many great suggestions of how to stay organized and efficient in various areas of one's life. It also gives hints to culture through fashion, food, interior design etc.  I like to keep my spaces wether is be at home or at work neat and organized. I do my best to stay organized with my day writing to do lists and enjoy learning new ways of being more efficient with my time. Real Simple has given me great ideas on how to do just that and some cool ways of using my design sense as I stay organized. 

Essence - www.essence.com 
I grew up reading Ebony and Essence Magazines. I remember coming home from school as a child and and work as adult seeing the Essence magazine on the table. I loved reading the inspirational messages of In the Spirit by Susan Taylor. I love reading the articles that shed light and give a plethora of information about & for people of color. I would go to my favorite sections first and then I would read the rest of the magazine and enjoy that too. 

Oh and I would borrow my sister's Bon Appetit - www.bonappetit.com 
I love food and really enjoy cooking so when my sister started got a subscription I would read each issue once she was done. Not only was it a great resource for recipes to try and restaurants to visit it gave me great insight to some great restaurants and recipes from around the world. I also learned about chefs from all around the world who brought their cuisines here to the US that I look forward to trying. 

What magazines would you have on your coffee table or in your tablet?

Hasta el Proximo Vez,

KoMiSa